Confident, Competent & Fulfilled
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Hi, I'm Erica! And I truly believe it's possible to have control over your emotions while still feeling deeply and experiencing the richness of life. 

ABOUT ME

My mission in life is to create a movement of confident, competent and fulfilled women. You need to know that you are LOVED, VALUABLE, and have a SPECIAL PURPOSE that only you can fulfill. 

  • No more being tossed around by waves of negative emotions

  • No more shame and regret over where you are now

  • No more hiding your gifts and stuffing down your dreams

Instead, I believe in embracing the identity that God has already given you. You are a beautiful daughter of God, lovingly designed with unique gifts and a special purpose. 

If your head knows that, but you think you can't make yourself FEEL it, I want to tell you that it is possible. I've done it myself, so I know you can too.

 

SO YOU'RE PROBABLY WONDERING HOW I GOT HERE?

I wish I could tell you that I've always been confident and in control, but the truth is it's been a long, painful journey.  My childhood was full of instability. After long and loud arguments between my parents, I would often be a therapist to my mom, comforting her and giving her clarity.  Meanwhile my relationship with my dad was full of animosity and misunderstandings.

I HAD NO SOCIAL LIFE...

In school I struggled to make friends. I was quiet and shy, and too sensitive to what people might think of me. I spent countless recesses crying in a bathroom stall. Over the years I developed severe social anxiety, though I didn't know what it was at the time. My lowest point was my freshman year in college, where I avoided leaving my room except for class. I even skipped dinners because going to the dining hall triggered panic attacks. 

I HAD NO SELF-ESTEEM...

I thought I was nothing. I thought everyone was better than me, and no one (besides my family) would care if I lived or died. I thought something was wrong with me at the core. 

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THEN I FINALLY GOT RELIEF...

Through hours of research, I discovered the term "social anxiety," and that began the slow process of healing. I bought Cognitive Behavioral Therapy books, self-help books, anything I could get my hands on. 

Then I heard a sermon that changed my life. I will never forget the simple question the pastor asked, "Do you know that God can speak to you?" 

I had always had one-way prayers, but had never taken the time to listen. That afternoon I got down on my knees, and told God I wasn't getting up until I heard from him. And the gentle whispers that I felt in my spirit comforted me. 

 
 

 

 
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TRUE HEALING IS ONLY POSSIBLE WITH GOD

As my relationship with God grew stronger, so did I. I have found the strength to fight over sensitivity, anxiety and insecurity. I have found the truth about myself in his Word, not in people, success, or any other source. 

God is a God of restoration. He has given me a wonderful husband and a great support system, but the best gift is knowing who I am in him and what I'm meant to do. 

AND I WANT THE SAME FOR YOU TOO

You deserve to live life with peace and joy, knowing that negative emotions no longer have a stronghold. You deserve to boldly take steps to achieve the dreams God gave you, and the satisfaction of knowing you have overcome fear. 

I'd love to help you do that. 

With Love,

Erica